how can i be relieved of bank loan ,without loss of property purchased in my wifes name in divorced case?

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Question Details: I purchased a house from LDA in my wifes name in 2002 worth 7 laks, i took 4 laks loan from icici bank ,where my wife is a co applicant .present cost of the house is more than 30 laks ,the all dues of housing development is paid only the registration of the house is not done. i paid the EMIs till june 2006 to the bank through my salary cheq , my wife left me two years ago and i am living with my daughter of 8 years old .i have till date not filed any case in the court ,only application to the local police station ,and the sp is given.
On visiting the government developments authority ,they say that the registry will be done in both the names i.e. in husband wifes names ,i have come to know that she is trying to bribe the officials heavily to get the property registered in her name,she was a non working women.
1. can i get my property back.
2.can she get the property registered in her name and sell.
3.how to get rid of bank loan in divorce state.
4.what should